Sunday, December 21, 2008

Time Flies....

...When you are busy at work. But now I am on winter break and I am quite enjoying it. I am looking forward to going to Minnesota with my mom to see my brother, his wife, and my nephew.
I am excited because we'll be taking the train! So it should be a nice, relaxing trip.
And then I will be back after Christmas and I'll be headed off to Texas. And that is all that I care to write right now!

Friday, November 14, 2008

My Meyers-Briggs Personality Type

It's scary how well I fit this...
I'll highlight the things that seem most relevant.


Ethical-Intuitive Intratim - INFj (The Empath)



INFjs have a very characteristic dispassionate facial expression. This is often reminiscent of the depiction of saints and martyrs from early Christian icons. Their faces convey the feeling that their soul is suffering even when it is not. (note: I get accused of looking unhappy and told to "smile!" all the time)INFjs faces are often perfect ovals but can be rectangular in shape as well. Their noses are usually straight and slightly elongated, but not prominent.

INFjs do not show intense positive emotions, instead they simply smile. All their facial expressions openly reproach nefarious happenings. The same can be noticed in their intonation. In many cases INFjs have a slim, ascetic figure. Their movements are often quite harsh although not lacking mobility. INFjs with more fuller figures are less mobile and active. When walking, INFjs may keep their feet close and parallel to the ground, maintaining a short distance between each step.

INFjs are generally very modest, which is also noticeable in their choice of clothes. However from time to time they may wear something very flashy according to the latest fashion especially is noticeable in males. INFjs prefer to observe people for sometime before making contact in order to identify social hierarchy in a group. Normally INFjs do not show initiative when making contact for the first time.

INFjs can be very touchy and this may strain the easy atmosphere of a conversation. Sometimes they adopt a monotone speech pattern that can snuff out all playfulness in others. INFjs have a special ability to listen to people and as a result they are often asked for advice or sympathy. They never push people away and are always prepared to listen for as long as it takes to make others feel better, even if they theoretically have better things to do. INFjs are always ready to help friends in difficult life situations. They care not with words but with real actions.

INFjs do not really make good cheats or frauds. This however, does not stop them from trying sometimes. And even if they do, they are likely to feel pretty bad about themselves afterwards. This gives INFjs a reputation as naive and impractical people. INFjs are very conscientious in their work . They do everything carefully, paying great attention to the quality of their labour. INFjs demand cleanliness and order. At home they tend to keep everything tidy, carefully storing their belonging, especially females INFjs. They like a calm and measured style of life and therefore try to prepare and anticipate everything beforehand, often making them quite reliable.

INFjs know how to establish peace between conflicting sides. They take a neutral position in the conflict, often being fired upon from both sides. They rarely push, shout or show aggressiveness. Instead they punish offenders by completely ignoring them until they realise their mistakes and apologise. INFjs do not like to project themselves: when everybody works, they work too, when everybody rests, they rest too. INFjs often cannot stand violence, conflict and graphic depiction of injuries.

Monday, September 22, 2008

Vegging Again!

To answer the comments-I don't know how long I plan to do the veg thing. I believe I answered some of those questions when I last spoke with Jaime, but here are my answers:
I don't think I want to be completely meat-free forever. I will probably include chicken, turkey, and fish at some point...when, I'm not sure. For now, I'll stick to the veggies until I get tired of it.
As far as animal by-products goes, I don't really pay that close attention. I eat eggs and dairy. If I know that something has lard in it, I will most likely avoid it. I think that's the greatest challenge-knowing whether something has animal products in it. I wouldn't eat soup flavored with bacon, but I might eat soup flavored with chicken stock or something like that. If something has been cooked with the meat, I will just take off the meat in a pinch. But in general, I am trying to avoid foods like those.
So that's my update!

Friday, September 5, 2008

Update on the Vegging

Well, as my friend J. has pointed out, it has been nearly 3 weeks since I wrote about being a veg. It is actually quite easy to do, and I am not really missing hamburgers or steak at all. I do miss chicken a little...but it's pretty easy to avoid when there are delicious other things such as cheese and bread and pasta and fruit and a myriad of vegetables to choose from.

I did have some challenges when I went to some barbeques recently. However, that was easily resolved-at one barbeque, I simply ate a light meal before and focused on the variety of salads and fruit. At the other one, veggie burgers were provided. And boy, do they taste good on the grill!

Labor Day weekend is typically a big barbequeing (sp?) weekend, and last weekend was no exception. Jim's family loves meat, and of course they wanted to barbeque. I grabbed some portobello mushroom Morning Star burgers and found that they were amazingly delicious. The second day, I made vegetable skewers with tomatoes, zucchini, onions, peppers, and pineapple. I put a light coating of spices on them, and voila! They were delicious. So, I am going to stick this out for as long as I can. I don't notice any negative health effects so far. I feel pretty good. I tend to wait to eat until I'm super hungry. Being a veg helps with this because instead of shoveling a cheeseburger, fries, and a large caffeinated soft drink into my face, I am now eating a lighter meal consisting of something like a corn soft shell taco, black beans, onions, cilantro, a light dollop of sour cream, and some low fat cheese, with herbal tea (natural caffeine). It fills me up just as much, and doesn't make me feel sluggish and slow by the end of the day.

On another note, I did buy some multi-vitamins and some iron. I have been taking these daily, which is something I've always tried to do in the past and failed....now I have the motivation, and I've been pretty good about it.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Vegging Out

Well, this past summer I discovered that I am unhappy with my weight. No, I don't think I'm fat. However, I do not like the fact that I seem to keep expanding. I am about 10 pounds heavier than I was 3 years ago. I do not like this. I attribute it to my love of cheeseburgers. I have been very lazy this past year. I think part of it is because I started working and not getting enough sleep. I felt too tired to cook anything healthy, so I went to Portillo's and Culver's far more often than I should have. I didn't exercise for about 4 months. Instead, I napped for an hour and then ate a cheeseburger. Then Jim came and stayed with me for 5 weeks while he worked on a project for his job in Schaumburg. We ate out every night because his company paid for it. This was not good for healthy eating. Again, too many cheeseburgers and Italian beef.

Now, I am exercising about 4 times a week. I walk about 3 miles or about 45 minutes worth of exercise. I find that walking is a good workout when it's really hot out. I also do my Wii Fit for 30 minutes a day.
Anyway, I've decided that the best way to get to my healthy weight and maintain it is to cut out the meats all together. I have recently developed a love for goat cheese these past few weeks, and I have noticed that my meat consumption has greatly declined. So I'm going to try it. I don't know if I'll stick with it, but I think it will be an interesting experiment.
Starting....now!

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Blog Name Change

I changed the name of my blog to better reflect what I talk about, which is nothing. Sort of Seinfeld-ian, don't you think? I wasn't sure if my items were of particular interest to anyone besides Jaime. Nothing in particular is a good summary of my musings. So that's why I changed it!
I have discovered that there is nothing to do except embrace my hair. It's just frustrating when I want to change it, and I can't. Stupid curls.
Oh well. I think I'll appreciate it more when I'm old and everyone is getting perms to try to fluffen up their limp, dry hair. I just wish I could have sleek wavy hair sometimes.

Monday, August 4, 2008

Lazy Summer

Class is over for the summer! So now, I can truly be lazy for almost 3 weeks. What a fantastic summer this has been! Endlessly long. I almost want to go back to school, just so I can wear my new clothes and shoes!
That's all I feel like posting today. I think I'll take a nap!

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

New Cat!

I can't find the motivation to finish my project that is due tomorrow. Sigh. Procrastination.
However, I do want to say that I got a new cat. I now have 2 lovely cats. The older cat is my ragdoll, Katrina. She is the best, if somewhat moody. Now she's even moodier because I brought in a little BeBe. BeBe is an exotic short haired Persian. Basically, she has the funny squishy face without the long fur. She is black and white striped with little white legs. I'm hoping that Katrina will get over her moodiness and accept BeBe. It's for her own good! I thought she could use a playmate. So, we shall see. I know it might take a while. Of course, I am being extra kind to Katrina. I love my cats!

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

I haven't blogged in a long time because...

I've been too busy actually doing things! Yes, I admit, I blog when I'm bored.
And this summer, I have been super busy with my online Master's degree program. Quite frankly, when you are required to do 10-15 hours of work a week online, including readings, discussion postings, and projects, you are not going to want to blog for another hour or so "just for fun." I am not at work, so I don't have to be on the computer if I don't want to.
Aside from my program, I have been traveling all over the Midwest-the Ozarks in Missouri and jet-skiing, camping in Michigan, going to the beach in Chicago and visiting the Shedd aquarium (I haven't been there in over 10 years!)
Running a lot, hanging out with my Champaign friends and Jim, eating ice cream, and playing with my new Wii. So really, I'm just kinda sick of the whole blog scene and I have little interest in talking about my daily activities online. I don't think people want to read about them anyway. I am sure that I will continue updating this more regularly when school starts again, but for now, I am enjoying my vacation and using the computer as little as possible...except to look at cats (I'm thinking of getting another one), shop on ebay, and make various online purchases. teehee.

Friday, June 6, 2008

Living at Home

I'm seriously done with the political stuff.

But anyway, I was intrigued by Jaime's post.

So here is my response: my former best friend (from back in middle school) lives at home. She is 25. She has worked at 3 different jobs in the last 3 years and has a degree from ISU in fashion marketing.

Another acquaintance lives at home and works as some sort of account representative (not accountant). She has a degree in management.

Another lives on her own and couldn't afford to pay rent, (music teacher in a western suburb) so she had to take a second evening job at Hallmark to get by.

My good friend that I've known since I was born is a teacher who got her degree from Bradley...I think she lives with her parents because she is an extreme saver and very attached to her parents. So it's cheaper, and easier for her.

Another person I know is a medical transcriptionist-degree from Oakton, lives at home.

For myself, I live alone, pay my own bills, and also live in the suburbs. I live near my parents out of convenience-it's nice to have someone to take care of my cat if I need it, and also nice to be able to have a place to go to dinner. While it's not the most exciting place in the world, I prefer it because I work in the suburbs, and I don't like commuting. So I plan on staying here. I of course, am a teacher, working in a suburban school district. I am very lucky.

Most of the people who live with their parents, I would think, would prefer to live alone. They simply can't afford it. I also think that the refusal to grow up is probably not applicable to most people. (although the previous best friend mentioned above is pretty immature)

Jobs don't pay as well as people think they will pay. There are numerous surveys done with college freshmen-they think they'll make $100,000 with a Bachelor's degree. That is hardly the case.

Most people I know from Big Ten and Ivy League/Small Private colleges do, in fact, live on their own and can afford to do so. I won't make any conclusions about that. Take it for what you will.

The other people I know who live in the city are the friends of my significant other. They are all accountants. Accounting is perhaps one of the most steady jobs around. And it pays extremely well.

Thursday, June 5, 2008

I've been reading a lot of blogs on both sides (I've stopped reading that feminist one though, and I've found that I'm much happier) regarding this whole Clinton issue.

I must say that I am quite pleased.

Here are some nice quotes that illustrate what I feel. These are taken from Slate Magazine's the XX Factor, a blog written by women. The author of this piece is Megan O'Rourke (emphasis is mine)

"Hillary's right, in a sense, that the way we elect our party nominees is a little ... complex. Even flawed. Sure. That's open for debate. But not WHILE the election is taking place. For better or for worse, we don't rewrite the rules midgame in American politics. Or at least we don't do that most of the time. And that's always been what made American democracy robust. The primary system is one the United States has followed for a long time. And Clinton doesn't get to change the rules midelection simply because they don't favor her. So I find it disingenuous—deeply, deeply disingenuous—that she claimed last night she really cares about "the deepest values of our party." Ours is a system of representative democracy. You don't get to throw a temper tantrum just because "your vote" wasn't "heard." After all, every time there is an election, some voters feel remorse that their candidates didn't win. If each of those candidates stirred up their supporters to the point where, as Dahlia put it, they looked ready to set off small brushfires, we'd be living in a much more violent country.

So you know what, Hillary? The deepest values of the party would suggest that you don't emotionally manipulate those who have less power and less authority than you. They would suggest that you don't stir voters into a moblike frenzy.They would place on you the burden of acting like a representative of someone who can compromise gracefully, negotiate wisely, and be generous even when the world does not bow to your will. Instead, you're creating a schism within the Democratic Party. If you really think there's a problem with the way primaries are run, take it up after you bow out. "

To read the full article, click here

Also, after reading the Vanity Fair piece on Bill Clinton, and his reaction to it, I am more and more convinced that he is nothing better than a lying, cheating snake. Cheating in the sense of women (I mean seriously-he's a disgusting pig) and cheating in regards to multiple shady business deals. If you think I'm kidding, read the article (and its responses) yourself. The fact that Hillary is still with him shows that her marriage is nothing more than a political convenience and a complete and utter sham. I find that the concept of 'standing by your man' when he has cheated on you multiple times and makes no effort at changing, and then using your false marriage as a platform to forward your political ambitions not worthy of my time, or my vote.

The blogs have given me a lot of good reasons to not support Hillary. One other thing that I wish to mention is the whole "Hillary is a common person" thing. Hello?? Hillary was an Ivy League educated white woman of privilege. The only reason she is saying that is because she is subscribing to the incredibly racist stereotype that a black man who has an education is somehow an elitist. That a black man with a Harvard degree who has not come from a background of privilege sees himself as 'better' than common white, working class folk. You just need to look at her statements on how she appeals to the 'white working class' and the fact that those same folks voted for her in large numbers. I just find that really disturbing.

So, I will laugh in November if McCain wins. I will laugh so hard. It would mean that the whole Democratic party primary season was a complete waste of time! And that politics is utterly meaningless.

Meanwhile, I'm wondering why we are still stuck in this two party system. Why does it have to be Democratic or Republican? I don't care for either of those parties, I don't like putting myself into boxes, and in the end, I think everyone is the same anyway. I think it would be fantastic if we had more than 2 parties. It just seems obvious now that there should be more than 2 candidates to vote for.

Friday, May 30, 2008

A Movie that I Shall See

Tonight, I am going to see Sex and the City: The Movie. Now, as I've mentioned before, I'm not an obsessive fan of the show. I have not watched the whole series, and I am sure I have a lot to catch up on. But, I do know the main details and I am really excited!

Of the episodes that I have seen, all of them are totally relevant. It has such clever, witty dialogue. While the characters may be stereotypes and not quite representative of a real person, on the whole, they do reflect aspects of all of us (I mean women), and I think it's great!

And, I will be seeing this movie without my usual male companion. I don't even think I'd want him there anyway. I feel like this is a movie that I would like to enjoy with my female friends. So anyway, I hope it's as good as they say!

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull

I saw this movie last weekend. Of course, I was disappointed. I mean nothing can compare to the excellence of the first three movies. (even Temple of Doom!) But what upset me the most was the sci-fi aspect of this movie. I don't want to give away the whole plot, but aliens? spaceships? Come on. Indiana Jones does not fall for such silly things.

I think part of the problem with this movie was the fact that people don't really know much about this crystal skull myth. Everyone knows at least something about the Holy Grail or the Ark of the Covenant. Even mystic temples in India seem more familiar than the idea of a fancy crystal skull with no carving markings.

I don't like aliens, and I don't like spooky alien heads. I like Mayan Temples and I like the idea of the crystal skulls, but I just don't like how they developed this story. It was entirely too unbelievable. It made me sad. I wanted to be involved in the story. I wanted to care about this legend. I thought the whole Communists thing was cheesy. I mean, it makes sense to have Russians as the villains, given that the movie takes place in the '50s. Maybe it's the fact that I don't particularly enjoy the '50s as a time period. I find it mostly bland and uninteresting. I am not interested in Communists or the Cold War or the homogenization of society brought on by suburbanization. I like Ike, I guess, but mostly, I remember him for D-Day and the military industrial complex.

So anyway, my area of historical interest basically goes from 1400s-1950 and then 1964-1977. Notice the gap from 1950-1964. HA!

This movie did not need to be made. I remember hearing rumors that the story was going to be about the mythical lost city of Atlantis. I think that would have been a better story. I will not be adding this to my Indiana Jones collection. Maybe in a few years, I'll reconsider. I will say that the special effects were fantastic...much better than the originals, which makes sense.

The Best Phone Ever

The Apple iPhone!
(I don't feel like including a picture; I am sure everyone knows what it looks like)

Yes, it does live up to the hype.

The best thing about it is that nothing on it is a gimmick. While the iphone copycats boast having a "touch screen", I noticed that they still have those annoying hard keyboards. So essentially, it negates the idea of a touch screen in the first place. The iphone seamlessly combines everything-keyboard, navigation, phone, internet, ipod, email, without any extraneous pieces. There is no need for another keyboard, because the iphone virtual keyboard works just fine. In fact, I like it a lot better than the standard keyboards on phones like the T-Mobile Sidekick, or the new Samsung phone. The iphone keyboard can be made larger or smaller. Capitalization and punctuation are a snap. And, it feels like you're really typing on it. I do admit that those with larger fingers may have more trouble adjusting to the keyboard, but it's a lot better than using the numbers to write text messages! No need to press the key 4 times to get the letter you want. I find that I am much more efficient at texting than I ever was before.

Another cool thing: the internet. The iphone picks up any wireless network in the area, but in the event you don't have that, it uses the AT&T network. While this network is slower than most Wi-Fi, it is a lot better than nothing! I can easily go on Wikipedia, check my gmail, and check facebook (it has its own special site for the iphone!) It's as easy as pie to just press the button and sail to the page.

The included ipod is another nice feature, but since I don't really listen to music, I don't use the ipod all that much. However, it does have all of my recent playlists, and the syncing with itunes is a snap.

Did I mention itunes? Yes, the iphone syncs with itunes, so it's ridiculously easy to update it. I love itunes, and have had it for several years now, so the switch just made things even easier.

You have to use an iphone to get how awesome it is. Once you do, you'll wonder why you used anything else.

By the way, the new Samsung phone ad made me laugh. I highly doubt it will be an 'iphone killer'. Anyone remember Microsoft's Zune MP3 player, the "ipod killer'? Ha. I didn't think so. I mean, yeah it's still around, but it's kind of lame, and not nearly as streamlined as the ipod.

The unique thing about Apple is it does things first. Apple was the first to introduce the ipod, with its scrolling wheel that was far superior to other mp3 players. So everyone copied it, or made some variation. The same is happening with the touch screen. Sure, other companies will now have touch screens. But do they have the same sleek design and ease of use? It doesn't really look like it.

So that's my ad for the iphone. I plan on buying the 3G model when it comes out. I love this phone, and it was worth every penny.

Also, I am not actually a fan of Apple computers. However, at school, we will be getting new ibooks. Which is kind of cool. The coolest thing is that these ibooks can run Windows and Mac. I will be running my parallel desktop in Windows mode only. No Mac OS for me. My allegiance to Apple only extends to the audio/phone department.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

American Idol

American Idol=teh suck

hehehehe.

Man, I hate that show. I am glad I have Tivo, because this night's finale would have been an awful waste of 2 hours. Meanwhile, I zipped through the whole thing in 5 minutes, like I do all results episodes.

I am pleased about the results...but then again, it's not like I would actually buy any albums.

Modern music has left me feeling somewhat empty. I have not found a band that whose album I would buy in about 3 years. The last band was Interpol in 2005. However, their second album was a disappointment. I also liked The Strokes back in the day. Now, it seems like there is just a lot of trash floating around.

Which is why I prefer the music of the past. Honestly though, I haven't listened to things on my ipod in a very long time. I prefer NPR to drive to in the car because it informs me about things and is less distracting than a song. Maybe I'm just getting older and lamer. :-(

I never thought that would happen to me, as I have always considered myself a devout fan of music. I remember just listening to my Beatles cassette tape on my walkman (!!) for hours back when I was in high school....yeah, I was a little behind the times. But it was all I needed. I could listen to the same songs forever. And now, it's like, yeah I know all of that. I don't even need to listen to it anymore because it's a part of me. I can just play it in my head if need be. I always thought I would be a freakish Beatles fan forever, but I guess people change. I remember shunning all popular music from 7th grade through about junior year of college. Then I discovered some new music. But now, nothing. I don't even know if my desire to listen to music and do nothing else will come back. It's really quite sad.

However, one thing that has not changed is my complete and utter obsession with reading. I can't sit still without having something to read, whether it's an ad from the paper, a book, a magazine, whatever. I particularly enjoy eating and reading. (when I'm alone)

Reading is something that will always be fun for me. And for that, I am grateful!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Names that I like

Jordan, Grace, Michael, and Mark....
tee hee hee....
Any Chicago sports fan should easily be able to figure this out.

But if you're dense, I would like to name my 4 (hypothetical) kids after 2 famous sports figures, Michael Jordan and Mark Grace. How awesome would that be!!

The name Jordan could be interchangeable as a boy's or a girl's name. I have it all figured out!

Other names that I like or would consider...Note: I feel that names should have meaning, so every name that I like is in homage to something....

Judy-after Judy Garland, perhaps the most talented singer/actress/entertainer ever
Elizabeth-after Queen Elizabeth I, one of the most powerful female monarchs ever
John-a nice solid name that resists insults-also in homage to John Lennon, musical genius
Robert Charles-after one of me heroes-my late grandfather
Desmond-I like the character on Lost and in the Beatles' song Ob-La-Di, Ob-La-Da...it's a little too girly sounding to realistically consider though
Julia-from the Beatles' White Album, the name of John Lennon's late mother, but also a really pretty song
Clark-after Clark Gable, but also a good, solid name

Monday, May 12, 2008

Living Together

I just wanted to dash this off as a response to J-Train. I completely agree with everything you said. Numerous statistics and studies exist proving the inefficacy of cohabiting before marriage. It's not a test drive. It's just...living together, pretending you're married without the responsibility.

My parents didn't live together before they got married. They've been married 33 years. My grandparents didn't either. They were married for 45 years. My other grandparents were married for 52 years.

I myself would like to be engaged before I do such a thing. I don't think it's necessary, but the main reason I would do it is for convenience and because it makes economic sense. I would not go into it thinking I'm prepping for marriage. I see it for what it is: it's just easier.

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Shoes

I would like to point out a fantastic website to those who may be hiding under a rock....All joking aside, www.zappos.com is perhaps the greatest site in the world. Zappos sells shoes. They sell other things too, like clothes and purses, but shoes are primarily what they're known for. Zappos is fantastic. Their service is unparalleled. Their selection is huge. Returns and exchanges are a snap. The people that work there are friendly and helpful.

I can't say enough about how much I love Zappos. I am, as some people may know, shoe obsessed. I absolutely love shoes, and Zappos definitely fuels that fire.

Here's why:
Zappos is based on the West Coast. So, if you place an order for shoes at around 8:00 am central time, that means it's 6:00 am Pacific time. Why is this important? Because Zappos has free shipping.
Here is a secret about Zappos shipping: a few months ago, Zappos used to advertise free overnight shipping. However, they changed this policy and now say that 4-5 day shipping is free, and it's $25.00 for overnight shipping. What they don't say is that in most cases, your free shipping will still be overnight. Basically, they don't guarantee free overnight shipping. However, for the last 4 pairs of shoes that I have ordered, I have received them the next day. So anyone who would pay $25.00 for the overnight shipping is just...unaware. Hehe. I am a Zappos sneak...I found this out by reading one of their blogs. So anyway, the overnight shipping is awesome, because if you place an order in the morning, you'll get the shoes by the next afternoon.

Another nice thing is that returns are a snap. Several times, I have ordered shoes that end up being too small. I guess my feet have grown a bit, since I always used to wear a 6.5. Now it seems like I have more 7 s that 6.5 shoes. Not that my old shoes don't fit....I guess it all depends on the type of shoe. But anyway, I have had to return and exchange several pairs. The process is ridiculously simple: call them up, reach a friendly salesperson in a matter of seconds, they walk you through the process, process the exchange, and then print out your free UPS shipping label. Drop off the old shoes at a UPS store, and your new shoes will arrive the next day.

One time I ordered 2 different pairs of shoes. I knew I was going to return one of them. So, when I decided on the ones I was going to keep, I simply clicked "return" on my account, printed out the label, dropped the shoes off, and a few days later, I had my refund.

Another time, I received a note in the mail from the person who had helped me process an exchange. A handwritten card from the girl who helped me on the phone, thanking me, and hoping I enjoyed the shoes. It was totally unnecessary, but it made me feel like there are actual people working at Zappos, and they care about helping me! What an excellent online business model.

Zappos has a 365 day return policy on their shoes. What store has that?? Plus, you don't pay tax, and the prices are about the same or cheaper than a department store. I have had experiences at department stores with waiting in lines to try on a pair of shoes, only to find that it doesn't fit, only to find that they don't have a different shoe in the right size...Zappos has a HUGE inventory, and they never sell sizes that are out of stock. I just love coming home to a Zappos box on my doorstep.

I realize that this is probably more promotional than anything else, but I feel like Zappos deserves it. They have made a lifelong customer out of me, and I encourage other people to try it.

Oh, and sometimes, I think working at a shoe place like Zappos would be a dream job for me....just sayin'...it's either books or shoes. :-P

Friday, May 2, 2008

This is hard

I have trouble thinking of what to write. Mostly, I am just too tired and lazy to think of clever things. Yesterday, I had a terrible headache which I believe was caused by a combination of allergies and shifting barometric pressure. I finally had to stop working at the computer and just focus on trying to stop the pounding in my head.

I will say this though: for anyone who thinks teachers have it easy, that is simply not the case. There is a reason we have summer break. The students definitely need it-they are pulled in multiple directions and are expected to come into school at 7 am, pay attention all day in 90 minute long classes, participate, and learn the lessons...then, a great majority of them go to sports or other activities after school until 6 or later at night. And then they go home and grab a quick bite to eat, and do homework until 12 or 1 am. And then they wake up at 6 to do it all again. Being a high school student is hard, perhaps the hardest work you'll ever have to do. For the teachers, it's a matter of planning lessons, running those activities, attending endless meetings, and being available to help students who missed class or need extra help. For me, I am also a resource for teachers, so at any moment a teacher can call/visit me to tell me they need me to put together a lesson on primary sources from the Civil War for their 3 US History classes by next week, or less. I don't mean to complain, but I am just exhausted. I like the students and I like my school, and I feel very lucky to be here, but I just wanted to explain why my posts are lacking.

I do wish to keep updating this, and I have some ideas stewing in my head, but right now, I am just not in the mode to articulate them.

Perhaps when I have time over the summer I will elaborate more.

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

TV Shows that I Like

1. The Simpsons-this show has influenced my youth more than any other show out there. It is much like the Indiana Jones Trilogy, in that my brother and I can basically talk to each other in Simpsons references. While I don't watch the new episodes anymore, I have the first 12 seasons on DVD. And I can name the plot of nearly every episode...along with quotes. I have often said that I could never date someone who wasn't a Simpsons fan. Yes, it's that important to me. Common cultural knowledge. Hehe. It's funny though, because most of my female friends aren't really that big into the Simpsons, which makes my trivial knowledge largely irrelevant. Oh well.
2. Seinfeld-A show about nothing that will remain timeless, precisely because it deals with the minutiae of daily life. I wasn't a regular watcher of the show when it was on, but I started watching it in syndication, and I did watch the last episode live. I didn't mind the ending, as I think it completely reflected the characters and their selfish motivations. I plan on buying all of these seasons on DVD. A fantastic show, and I'm glad it ended before it got too old.
3. The Sopranos-I got into this show in 2006. Jim and I spent a good part of the summer watching the first 6 seasons. It was well worth it. Then we watched the last season on HBO in real time. So it was a perfect way to end the series. An amazing story that ended with some nice ambiguity
4. Twin Peaks-A cult favorite-I have it on DVD, and haven't watched the whole thing yet. But I firmly believe that this show, which came out in 1992 or so, and was on for 2 seasons, is the precursor to every show that has large story arcs and multiple characters with complex motivations.....I'm referring to you, Lost, and you, Heroes. Twin peaks opened the door for those shows, and it deserves some respect. Plus, Kyle Machlachlan is in it, and I like him. I'll include Lost and Heroes in this slot as well, because I enjoy both of those shows. I am not a Lost freak however, since I only started watching it last year and haven't bothered to watch the previous seasons.
5. The Office-The only current comedy that I enjoy. I like the clever, offbeat nature of the episodes. However, I am getting a little annoyed by the Jim/Pam romance. I don't think the show can last much longer if it continues that theme. (I hate romances, did you know that?) I'd also like to add that I have watched all of the British version of The Office (2 seasons plus a special), and I think it is a much better show. It panders less to ratings than to making a realistic story. And the ending, while sad, was way more satisfying. Who knows how long the current US version of The Office will go on. It will probably just get lamer over time.
6. America's Next Top Model-My favorite reality tv show. I don't enjoy the cattiness, but I love the photo shoots. Granted, it does enforce negative stereotypes about beauty, but it motivates me to work out. And I can always use motivation. Seriously, I can.
7. Project Runway-I love fashion, and I love the clever designs they come up with. Plus, the judges amuse me.
8. Top Chef-I just started watching it this year, and I find it very entertaining, despite the fact that I get hungry every time I watch it! This year, it takes place in Chicago, which is fun. I always like Chicago themed shows.
9. American Idol-I love and hate it. I do not take it seriously at all. Unlike the other reality shows that I mentioned, I don't really care who wins. I think the theme nights are ridiculous, and the amount of advertising money spent and the shameless promotions are insane. It is a product of consumerism. I feel bad for people who care about it, but at the same time, I can't stop watching it, mostly because I enjoy when people mess up. I'm evil, I know. I never watch it live. Tivo helps me reduce the viewing time from 1 hour to about 35 minutes, so not too much of my time is wasted.
10. Sex and the City-I never watched this show when it was on the air, and I've only seen a handful of episodes, but I really like it. I like that the characters are different, and that they have different goals and expectations. While it does have that element of cheesy romance, it also has an element of realism that is absent from many "chick" shows. I am looking forward to the movie, and I plan on getting the series on DVD at some point.
11. House, M.D.-The only medical show that I like. Dr. House is evil, and hilarious. I don't make it a point to watch this show, but when I remember to tivo it, I enjoy it.

So there you have it! Luck 11!

Monday, April 28, 2008

TV Shows that I Do Not Like

I need to make sure that I update this regularly. However, time seems to slip by very quickly, and I find that a week has gone by in the blink of an eye. I think part of the problem is that I do not feel like sitting at the computer when I'm at home. I am on the computer all day at school, and by the time I get home, I tend to be sick of it, so I try to avoid the computer (aside from checking Facebook, of course.) I am glad that FB is blocked at school. It really helps keep me focused. :-P.
Anyway, I have decided to focus this post on Television Shows that I Do Not Like. I realized that I have a lot of opinions about TV shows. I will follow this up with a post on Television Shows that I Do Like.
And now, the Do Not Like List
1. Grey's Anatomy-contrived, silly romantic fluff. I am tired of Meredith Grey and her on again, off again adventures with McDreamy. I really just do not relate to these characters. Complete stereotypes. And it keeps going on and on, with no hope of an ending in sight. I used to watch this show regularly. That was 3 years ago. Now, I avoid it at all costs, and am much happier for it.
2. Desperate Housewives-I don't like a lot of ABC shows. This is another one that I used to watch, back in the day.
3. Friends-I'm sorry, but this show is perhaps one of the most cliched, stereotyped sitcoms ever created. Granted, it is a perfect example of the sitcom formula-all the characters are stereotypes, the humor is bland and inoffensive, the typical romance ties everything together. And, this show really shows its 'datedness'. In 10 years, I doubt anyone will want to watch it. I've never been able to get into Friends, and I've never understood its popularity. I am glad it ended.
4. The Hills, and most any other show on MTV-I don't understand why people watch these pseudo celebrities. I guess I'm too old for this station, because I find most MTV offerings dull and lacking in any sort of imagination or creativity.
5. Everybody Loves Raymond-No. Everybody does not love Raymond. I guess I can lump this show in with EVERY OTHER sitcom that has been on TV in the past 10 years. Three and a Half Men, According to Jim, etc. etc. etc. Not funny. Not engaging. Not my target demographic.
6. The Bachelor-The worst reality TV show ever. These women are pathetic and sad. Apparently, the only thing they want in life is to compete with 20 other women for the "love" of a rich guy. I guess because they all have lame jobs and never tried to do anything meaningful with their lives. I think this show has set women back about 1,000 years.
7. Soap Operas-I just think they're boring and they never end.
8. Baseball on TV-I like baseball, but I do not like watching it for 4 hours. Especially if they go into extra innings. Ugh. There is just not enough excitement to keep my interest.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Sin City!

I just got back from Las Vegas. It was a lot of fun. I was very proud of myself because I did not gamble away my money in the slot machines. And let me tell you, slot machines are very addicting. Not the standard spinning wheel-one line slots...I mean video slot machines,with multiple lines. It is such a thrill to win those bonus spins!! I was up about $17, but of course I lost it all. So I only lost about $20 total on gambling. Not too shabby. Especially because I was playing penny slots!

The BF and his brother, on the other hand, did some real gambling-craps and blackjack. So I spent several hours watching them try their luck. They ended up doing ok-they were up about $90, and ended up losing about $100, which is really small potatoes in a place where people lose thousands. Gambling really doesn't interest me all that much though. I enjoy watching people play and thinking about what I would do, but really, I'd rather spend the money on a new pair of shoes...something I can keep. We also went to some fun nightclubs though, which is more my style.

I just read J's post regarding spending and the economy-well, we certainly did our part this weekend. Although I didn't spend a lot of money on gambling, my companions certainly did. I was also lucky because they bought my drinks. And, I did not have to pay cover at most of the nightclubs. So hooray for Vegas-it is always an interesting time.

Perhaps when I have more energy I will write more regarding my ideas on the myths and illusions of Vegas.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

I didn't forget about this blog!

I've been busy. Sorry. But, I hope to update this fairly frequently.

On to my next topic: Favorite Movies. Note: this is not in any particular order...all of them are my favorites.

1. Amadeus-BEST. MOVIE. EVER. I've loved this movie ever since I first saw it, which was probably when I was about 6 years old. It came out in 1984, and my family got it on video probably in the early 90s. I love this movie because it is a great story, despite its historical innacuracies, it has fantastic music (Mozart!), and it really shows his genius. My favorite scene: when Mozart is in his sickbed, dictating the Requiem to Salieri...he demonstrates how all the music is just in his head, and he's talking really fast and Salieri can barely keep up. It's just a brilliant scene. You should watch it. Really.

2. Indiana Jones Trilogy, especially Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade-Another set of movies that I grew up with. We had these on VHS when I was quite small. My brother and I would watch the constantly. Over the years, we have developed a sort of secret language based on these movies. We can just mention one phrase, for example "bad dates" and both of us will start laughing. I have large chunks of these movies memorized. Perhaps the best action/adventure movies ever made. And now I have all 3 on DVD. I am wondering how good the 4th installment will be...

3. Pulp Fiction-I've only seen it twice, but I have it on DVD. The dialogue is fantastic, the story is really cool, and it's a movie that you can quote endlessly.

4. American Psycho-One of the creepiest movies around. It takes place in the era of 80s yuppies. The soundtrack has lots of classic 80s hits. Christian Bale is a great actor. I saw this movie twice, and I finally "got it" after the second watching. Very quotable as well.

5. American Beauty-In keeping with the "American" theme....I love Kevin Spacey. One of his greatest performances, I believe. Amazing story about the emptiness of suburban life...and how we all trick ourselves into thinking that it's what we really want. Eminently quotable (I really like quoteable movies-I think it's what makes the movie memorable for me) "You don't get to tell me what to do...ever again. "

6. The Dreamers-A French/English movie about a young American studying in Paris in the 60s..he meets a pair of twins, a boy and a girl...and they open up his mind and his worldview. It's rather racy and erotic, with lots of sex and drugs. But it's so appropriate for the setting-young revolutionaries trying to change the world. Also, the soundtrack is simply fantastic. Lots of classic rock.

7. Fight Club-A classic, of course. Brad Pitt and Edward Norton are amazing. A clever story, and of course, lots and lots of lines that people quote in their facebook profiles. One thing I like about this movie is that it doesn't seem dated. The concepts apply to any time period. Materialism, rampant consumption, filling our empty lives with posessions....it's still all there. "On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero."

8. Mulholland Drive-David Lynch's sexy, dark, mysterious, masterpiece. I still don't quite get how all the pieces fit, and I love it. A creepy, clever, brilliant, sorta mystery, with many theories as to what everything means. I love it when a movie makes you think about it long after you've watched it.

9. The Right Stuff-From 1983... I didn't see this movie till I was about 17, but I loved every minute of it. It is truly a masterpiece. It's basically a precursor to Apollo 13. Ed Harris is even in it, as John Glenn. It covers the time period from when Chuck Yeager broke the sound barrier to the first Mercury space missions. It has excellent music, and lots of memorable scenes. Just an excellent movie. One of my favorite historical epics.

10. Donnie Darko-A neat movie that deals with time travel and wormholes (I think!) in a very non sci-fi way. It has a great soundtrack as well.

11. The Usual Suspects-A thriller with an amazing twist at the end, although I'm sure most people know what it is by now. But still....Kevin Spacey is just so good!

12. Fantasia-Disney's animated exploration of the world of animation, sound, and color. I absolutely love this movie. I love how they animate classical songs-even Stravinsky! I am going to see if I can get this on DVD, because I haven't watched it in several years.

Monday, April 14, 2008

Inspired to Write Again!

I decided to start a new blog in response to my good friend Jaime's interesting and thought-provoking blog. I feel that writing the blog will allow me to write more substantial posts, instead of just responses to comments. And, I will hopefully garner some useful comments in the process.

So, inspired by a post on favorite books, I will now create a list of my own. However, my list is not a typical favorites list, because I have too many favorites. Instead, I will call this list "Books that stuck with me", meaning books that I read, and then thought about for a long time afterwards. These are the books that made me want to find out if the author has written others like it. Most of these books are ones that I have read in the past year.

Books that Stuck With Me
1. As Simple as Snow by Gregorgy Galloway-I spent nearly a week after reading this book researching some of the ideas in it. An engaging, compelling mystery that leaves you wondering at the end. One of the best books I've read in a long time. It made me want to buy a shortwave radio.
2. Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows-the last HP book. Loved it. I thought it tied everything neatly together. I love how the characters mature throughout the series, and I think the writing has improved as well. I can't wait for the rest of the movies to come out! And, I still hope that Rowling might want to write one more...although I would be interested in seeing what else she can come up with.
3. Twilight/New Moon/Eclipse by Stephenie Meyer-I liked Twilight a lot. By Eclipse, I was a little tired of the series. I think that the quality has declined, and I think that the books are a little too long. However, I could not put any of these books down. I wanted to know what happened, despite my frustration with the characters of Bella, Edward, and Jacob. They felt very real to me. I am eagerly looking forward to the fourth book in this series, Breaking Dawn, which is due out in August. I think part of my annoyance with this series is the fact that it is soooo teen angsty, and I don't identify with that anymore. The phenomenon associated with these books is fantastic though, and they are probably some of the most popular books in our library. Did I mention that it's a vampire romance? Yeah...
4. Blue Bloods by Melissa de la Cruz-Another vampire book. This time it's like a combo of Gossip Girl and...some vampire story. The first book was really good. I like the vampire lore that de la Cruz has created, and it's different from Meyer's version. However, the second book, Masquerade, was not nearly as exciting. I'm not sure how long this series can go, but I suppose I'll read the next few books, if and when they come out.
5. Unfinished Portrait by Mary Wesmacott-I've read this book probably 20 times. I still never get tired of it. And yes, I did re-read it this year. One of my favorite books ever. It was written by Agatha Christie under the pseudonym Mary Westmacott. It fulfills my love of Victorian novels. A semi-romance, semi biography. Old fashioned and fantastic! (also very hard to find in print!)
6. A Great and Terrible Beauty/The Rebel Angels/The Sweet Far Thing by Libba Bray-The first book was excellent. The second was ok. The third was over 800 pages too long and quite tedious. However, I managed to scrape through it. Really popular with the 16 year old girl romantic/gothic/fantasy novel crowd. I thought the ending to the series was really lame, but the concepts in the books are really cool. It involves girls in boarding school, Victorian England, and a mysterious place called the Winterlands. I really wish it hadn't ended in such a tedious way. But A Great and Terrible Beauty is definitely worth reading.
7. This is All: The Pillow Book of Cordelia Kenn by Aidan Chambers-A unique, massive tome about a girl and her experiences growing up. I didn't finish it, but it's one of those lovely novels that you can kind of drift through in pieces and feel good that you managed to get some of it read. I'll finish it someday!
8. The Red Leather Diary by Lily Koppel-A brand new book that I am still in the process of reading. One of the few nonfiction books that I like! It is about a diary that this woman, a writer for the NYT, found. It was written during the 1920s-early 30s. A very unique young woman was the writer. The story retells her life and her many interesting experiences. An excellent historical piece.
9. The Devil in the White City by Eric Larson-True story of the 1893 Columbian Exposition in Chicago. It's cool because it's Chicago history combined with the story of the serial killer who was killing young women at the time...extremely creepy.
Well, that's all for now. I can't think of a 10th.